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Tired of not getting the responses you'd hoped for on this site (or any other site?) Here are a few hints I've learned from both great and horrible real-life encounters that resulted from initial online contacts. If you EVER want to do more than cyber or exchange hot emails or fantasies with anyone, BE HONEST ON YOUR PROFILE AND IN YOUR EMAILS AND MESSAGES. And if you want to ONLY cyber or exchange hot emails, have the courtesy to say that right upfront and not lead anyone on. If you're married and REALLY DO have your spouse's permission to look outside the marriage for whatever you're seeking, state that, and BE PREPARED to have your spouse speak with your potential partner(s) on the phone or in person before you get involved with anyone. Most people have learned after a time or two, that some say it's ok for them to mess around with others, but they LIE. If you're married and your wife "doesn't understand you, " or your husband "can't give you what you need, " and THEY DO NOT KNOW you are here looking for sex with someone else, SAY THAT IN YOUR PROFILE AND COMMUNICATIONS. The word "discreet" is a dead giveaway that you're a cheater who wants to sneak around and deceive the one you promised to love, honor, and cherish. Some may choose to get to know you anyway, but do have some respect for those who do NOT want to get involved with cheaters. If you lie to your life partner whom you supposedly love, you can't be expected to NOT lie to anybody else about anything. Don't waste others' time who won't tolerate that behavior. If the only picture you're comfortable sending anyone or putting on your profile, looks nothing like you do now, or is of someone else, SAY SO IMMEDIATELY. As in, "that was taken 10 years ago and I'm about 50 pounds heavier/lost both legs in an industrial accident/it's just a pic I put here so I can play, it's not me at all." Don't waste others' time who might place some value on looks. If you're bi or bicurious, SAY SO. That's not something all people are comfortable with in a sex partner. Again, don't waste others' time. If you abuse any kind of substance, such as alcohol, divulge that. If you have a disability or STD, divulge that as well. If you can't tolerate tobacco smokers or heavy drinkers or anyone who has children in the home, SAY SO. If you want a long-term relationship, or just a one-night stand with no further contact, SAY SO. There are people out there who are seeking the same thing you are. BE HONEST. If someone says NO they are NOT interested, drop it and move on. There are a lot of people on this site. Stalking is illegal. If at all possible, have the common courtesy to respond to emails, even if it's just a "no thank you." This saves the person who sent the email from wondering if it actually got delivered through the system and sending another one "just in case." However, one definite exception to this hint, is if the email is for a paysite, or if it's a rude email or from someone who's stalking you. Boot those into the cyber-stratosphere. If you ever plan to meet anyone in person here, don't lie about your penis size/bust size/body size. If you ever DO meet in person, you'll be found out IMMEDIATELY, and the reactions can be VERY negative. If you have planned to meet someone in person, nothing short of involvement in a major traffic accident or trip to the ER or something of that magnitude should EVER interfere with that meeting. Simply not showing up with no phone call in advance, is the HEIGHT OF RUDENESS, and very few if any, will EVER give you a second chance. If you can't make it, or just got scared and changed your mind, have the decency to let the person you're meeting, know in advance. There is nothing sadder than a woman or man, all excited and dressed up, waiting alone at a table, looking at her/his watch, giving all arrivals hopeful looks and then seeing the looks of disappointment on his/her face, and watching him/her eventually getting up and leaving alone. Nothing ticks most people off more than deliberate deception. And just so you know, I've dealt with ALL of the above scenarios; and am now happily attached to one who has never showed me any rude or dishonest behavior. signed, a female AFF member
